Rather than allowing myself to wallow in way too many emotions and
tracks by Tori Amos, I decided to call the guy I was digging on. This was after
I noticed he was in the area and asked if he'd like to meet for coffee and he
declined. I had been feeling uneasy. I knew he wouldn't pick up, which was
easier and I called him. I told him ever since we last saw each other, I feel
that he’s been distancing himself and I’ve been wanting to have this
conversation for a few weeks and that this whole incident has made me feel
uneasy. I also said he doesn’t have to plan anything for Friday (I had been
able to reach him via text and say we needed to hang out). I ended it by saying
that while it’s his choice to call back, but I’d eventually would like to speak
with him.
My
friend who is a therapist said I handled it well. I'm not upset about this. I'm
just glad I did something before it could fester and annoy me. I have
awesome people in my life. To quote Cocteau Twins, "I think, yes, I'm
doing a fine job."
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